To find yourself, your soul must encounter another soul.
A person becomes a self through encountering the other.
In my work with couples I focus on clearly structured dialogues
(EcCT – Encounter-centered Couples Therapy, Imago).
So couples can learn
how to hear each other, to understand each other,
to „know“ each other
how to realize that conflicts can be used for growth
how to express their needs and to move past defensiveness and back into connection
how to act as adults and partners in their relationship
how to resolve their mostly unconscious fears of a really close relationship
how to live their desire for connection, love and closeness
how to create their relational life in a relaxed and loving way, which will have a profound influence on their children, because the space between the parents is their children’s living space.